Small Group Questions: God’s Valentine Summary: Since the Lord has expressed his love for us as his “bride,” we need to express love for our spouse and for each other through words and action. Optional Ice Breakers (choose one) - What was the most memorable Valentine’s day? - What was the most memorable expression of love you have experienced? Explore (Eph 5:1-2; 5:21-6:4) 1. What is to be the basis of our love for each other? How does God want us to respond to his love? 2. In what ways has/does Christ show his love for us? 3. In what ways did Christ give himself up for others? 4. In what ways did Christ “sanctify” the church? (To sanctify carries the idea of setting something apart, to dedicate, or to make special) 5. In what ways does Christ present a “beautiful” church to himself? 6. Based on this passage, how would you define or describe what love is? Apply 7. In what ways are each of the aspects of Christ’s love discussed above a model for how your are to love your spouse? Your parents? Your brethren? 8. What are some ways you struggle with showing Christian love? 9. What are some specific, concrete ways you can demonstrate or express Christian love to your spouse? Your parents? Your brethren? 10. What are some ways you can demonstrate Christian love to those you know who are not Christians? Prayer Use 1 John 4:7-8 as a guide to your prayer