Small Group Discussion: God Chooses Champions (1 Sam 16:1-13) (Adapted from the Serendipity Bible, Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1998.) Summary: God is not concerned with things such as appearance, power, or ability. Rather, he is concerned with loyalty and character. Therefore, we should strive first and formost to grow in godly character. That is what makes a champion in God’s eyes. Optional Ice Breaker Questions: (choose one) - When the kids picked teams on the playground, how long did it usually take for you to get chosen? Why? - What have you purchased based on first impressions, only to find out later that the product was not as advertised? 1. What was God communicating by passing over all of Jesse’s sons before picking David?2. Why do you suppose Samuel anointed David in the presence of his brothers?
- Shepherds make the best kings
- Those who seem best may not be God’s choice
- God’s way of looking at people is different than ours
- Age doesn’t matter to God
- The most important things are invisible, such as character and integrity
3. If you had been one of David’s brothers, how would you have felt watching your youngest brother get chosen?
- To affirm David
- To make God’s choice clear
- To provide witnesses for future verification
- Other: _________________
4. How can you relate to this story?
- Proud
- Jealous
- Hurt
- Shocked
- Angry
- Other: _________________
5. On what basis do you tend to judge other people? Yourself?
- I’ve felt punished for my sins - like Saul (v.1)
- I’ve felt passed over by God - like David’s brothers (v.10)
- I’ve felt left out by other people - like David (v.11)
- I’ve felt chosen by God - like David (v.12)
- I’ve felt the power of God - like David (v.13)
6. Knowing “the Lord looks at the heart” (v.7) verses outward appearances, what can you do to make your heart more attractive to God? 7. In your relationship with God, have you felt more passed over or specially chosen lately? Why? 8. How can this group pray for you now and in the coming week?
- Talents
- Lifestyle
- Appearance
- Education
- Character
- Faith
- Intelligence
- Potential
- Possessions
- Accomplishments
- Other: ___________________